The Sacred LOVE work is not merely about visiting a lovely spiritual idea.
Through practice, we become increasingly able to live from a new place:
- Love becoming available within, instead of endlessly sought outside.
- Less: dependence, demanding, over-giving, seeking external validation.
- Greater: acceptance, neutrality, discernment, boundaries, self-worth.
. - Actual changes in marriages, families, dating, and difficult relationships.
- Practice becoming lived capacity – not merely an inspiring experience.
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FIRST: VIDEOS
I received an enormous gift a few years ago:
My friends interviewed my friends
about the fruit of our Soul Practice.
Here are clips from ten friends
who experienced meaningful changes in
Love and/or Relationships through Soul Shifting Practice.
Perhaps their experiences of finding greater Personal Harmony
will inspire you in your own Journey into LOVE.
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I’ve arranged one clip from each person in order of length:
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Dani – 21 seconds – Love has to come from within.
As long as searching for fulfillment from outside – never fulfilled.
Lynn – 32 seconds – Learned to be less demanding in relationships.
Relationship Neutrality (Equanimity & Spiritual Perspective)
leads to Freedom, Love, Ease.
Tim – 34 seconds – Acknowledging Light Love Wisdom we all carry.
Accepting self and others on their own path, not having expectations.
Claire – 43 seconds – Validation of being oneself and shining light.
Don’t need to prove it or get graded, it’s huge.
Katie – 56 seconds – feeling love, that you want to become – within –
and becoming that energy field.
Jill – 1:18 minutes – I settled.
Before, I searched for external validation, from anywhere and anyone.
I’d take ‘Love’ series every week the rest of my life, if I could.
Andrea – 1:44 minutes – More balanced relationships.
Can let go and not get so caught up in family dynamics.
Scott – 1:44 minutes – Bringing Love inside.
Instead of focusing on when partner will come.
Dawn – 2:09 minutes – Practicing, present moment to moment.
Being in the ‘Love Series’: experienced a shift in her relationship.
The Love system actually works.
Jee Sun – 2:24 minutes – I had given up on Love, thought it was impossible.
LOVE class opened up the possibility. Validation on a whole new level. I’d felt like an outsider, unlovable freak all my life; but changed that script. Now love is manifesting in my life. Amazing – Love, Validation, Fulfillment – it’s Miraculous.
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Here are more clips from the same folks, if you’d like to keep watching.
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These are in alphabetical order:
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Claire – 27 seconds – I’m more pleasant to be around.
I can let my husband be himself, and more accepting of who he is.
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Dani – 18 seconds – Finding freedom.
Had co-dependent relationships, alcoholic mom, generational issues.
Dani – 21 seconds – All my relationships are better.
Wendy’s coaching helps me to love myself.
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Dawn – 28 seconds – Overflow of love, in service to others.
Meeting needs from within. Not over-giving.
Dawn – 1:43 minutes – “relationships deepened… it’s been really miraculous“
Describes her husband being a mirror for her,
showing her where she can work in herself. Huge shifts in family.
Dawn – 2:28 minutes – Possible to be Neutral
& extend Love to someone who grates me.
Developing love for a person she disliked, now relationship GOOD.
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Jee Sun – 1:07 minutes – As lawyer, orphan, minority… built up steel walls.
My Challenge is softening, being vulnerable, and letting people in.
Jee Sun – 1:28 minutes – I used to have an impossible dating checklist.
But now I let it flow. I’m ok with what IS. Now have relationship I needed.
Developing discernment in my innate abilities.
Jee Sun – 1:53 minutes – Consciously receiving energies of love & belonging,
helped me make a huge shift. I Thought I was a freak.
Now I want to complete clearing that, and go on to my next challenges,
so I can develop further & further into joy & synchronicities.
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Jill – 1:03 minutes – “I used to look outside myself for the answers“:
external validation, but now look more inward. Owning my worth.
Jill – 1:13 minutes – Boundaries come from self-worth.
If someone doesn’t fit with us, then send them off in loving way,
and cherish yourself enough to know when someone is not a good fit.
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Katie – 1:35 minutes – I had to learn to be neutral, from there open.
With present fiancée, worked on being healthy, not being so co-dependent.
First romantic relationship suddenly appeared after working on myself.
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SECOND: TEXT
For good measure, I thought I would add a handful of written testimonials
sent to me after LOVE workshops over the years, including:
BEing the Love You Want: Let IN What You Desire
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Wow…so much goodness to process. Thank you so much for sharing!
– Sabrina
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Love the positive energy, the learning, and healing
….the new people connections
– Melinda
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Wendy! Thanks for inviting me to the LOVE PLAYshop yesterday.
Masterful! I have so many shiny new things to play with in my meditations.
– Liz
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Outstanding job, Wendy!
Helped start pulling pieces from many avenues of my life
in which I’ve worked on different tools and approaches
and feel like I finally found one more of the few right places to be!
– Elicia
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How to Live in Love
took me to a reviewing of the relationships I’ve had.
I had to ask myself if they were romantic experiences,
or two people in slight fear, presumed confidence,
holding on to moments of copulation.
The “yum yum” shared experience.
I Loved the gum ball analogy.
Seemed like the others were in the same space.
Left me speechless, very reflective. Good one!
Much 💕
– Tim